The "One"

This is a letter I wrote to myself as I wait for the “One”, I wrote this for comfort and strength and I often find comfort in reading this as I wait on the journey and path of  the “one” finding me. I pray it will bless you to.

What I look forward to in my next marriage/long term relationship is number one that it will last until God calls us home. I know I am well built for a lasting, loving relationship because I was married before for 18 years so sticking and staying is not an issue. I know also I am worthy of mind blowing love, honesty, integrity, security and trustworthiness I am worthy of having a monogamous relationship I am worthy of having someone who does not want to share me or be shared, we can truly be one.

Someone I can be raw and honest with and who will love me with or without my lashes or my make up on or off. The one you can be real with and they accept you flaws and all. The “One” will be sent from God and fashioned and designed for me and me for him. The “One” is preparing for me as I am in preparation for him. I am busy with my life, I am getting out of debt, working on my temple, eating right and staying healthy. I am chasing my dreams and visions that have been set before me to achieve.

I am a woman of prayer and purpose so that The “One” will find me working and busy in the gates. I am gleaning in the field like a beautiful carefully crafted diamond. I am sparkling now because in preparation for the “One” I went through lots of heart ache and pressure on the way to him finding me. I went through the pressures of bad choices in relationships because of not having patience for the “One”. The pressures of raising 3 children as a single mom,  the process of self-love and self-discovery, the process of re building and being recreated and fashioned just for the “one” I remind myself when I begin to get anxious and question the wait, and the why’s that sometimes enter my mind. I cast them down as I think of the “one”, God has designed and set aside for me the “One”  specially crafted and made for his favor.  I can’t get weary or dreary for the day will be soon as the “One” is on a mission to find me as God prepares him for his “One” J

This article is compliments of Michelle A. Roberts, M.A., Author, Speaker, and Entrepreneur

So he doesn’t want you…… Pick up your P.E.A.R.L.S .

I just got off the phone with a client who was crying and I was listening and all she kept saying is he don’t want me. He doesn’t want me! I listened and listened, I got teary eyed too. But then I had to help my sister.

So he doesn’t want you…… First let me acknowledge that yes it is a bad feeling and it can make you question your self-worth, your mental clarity and your spiritual walk. I believe at least once if not more you will experience this when you are dating and even when you have been in a committed relationship or one you thought commitment was supposed to be there. Honestly it’s just not a good feeling.

But girl let me tell you ….. Pick up your P.E.A.R.L.S and move forward.  It was probably a good thing. (I know you making a face) But trust me and read on. J

Pick up Peace of mind you were probably trying very hard and trying more than they were.  Let’s face it after you cry and reflect, there is nothing like Peace of mind. 

Next put your Emotions in check, “weeping endures one night but joy comes in the morning” (Okay it may take you a week but do it), calm yourself, exercise, and breath, scream if you need too!

Take Action, get involved in other activities, call your family or your girlfriends that you may have been ignoring when you were caught up, stay busy and if you are brave start dating again.  Call that 2^nd string, you know the one who said if he ever lets you go I will be there. (Be careful now, if you are one that can’t handle something new that quickly.)

Have a Reality check; examine the good, the bad, the ugly and what you want in your next relationship and the things you will improve upon and the things you will not put up with.

Love yourself like never before, get a massage, have a spa day, get your make up done, Change your hair,  go to the movies or a play by yourself (love you and be okay even when you are alone) .

And finally be Strong you can and will live through this experience, you will grow, you will love again and you will be position with your P.E.A.R.L.S. Peace, Emotions , Action, Reality, Love and Strength.

This article is compliments of Michelle A. Roberts, M.A., Author, Speaker, and Entrepreneur

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C.H.O.I.C.E.S

Changing Habits Outlasting Impossibilities Creating Establishing Success

At the end of the day it’s all about choices, it’s easy to blame someone for the failed relationship, the time you were played for a fool, the bad financial choices etc. There are a list of choices we make every day that impact our now and our future. I am not just telling you this from what I heard but from several bad choices, failures and poor decision making.  I could write a list from A to Z or even 1 to 100. But I won’t bore you with the dreary details. What I will do is encourage you to move on and do better. It’s all about a made up mind and deciding I will change and I will do better. This could be a short process for some and a longer process for others depending on what poor choice you made. One process that I am involved in currently is cleaning up my credit, it went bad from poor choices I made and the impact of a bad marriage where we made joint decisions on credit things and once the marriage was dissolved there was a lingering effect. Therefore it will be a process that won’t happen overnight but little by little it is improving monthly and I see a Great, High credit score/fico score in my future. I am not only speaking it I am accommodating my faith with action of paying off things, writing the credit bureaus and getting things removed as well as,  I am getting help from experts in the field of credit repair/restoration.

I decided to stop rehearsing the bad relationships and move forward there are great men/women out there looking for other great men/women to move forward with and have a productive, loving, caring and respectful relationship. I decided to get myself together, spiritually, emotionally, financially and socially so that when that great man finds me   I am the great woman he has been waiting, praying and seeking for.  

I decided that my dreams are not big enough and I need to dream bigger, bolder and outlandish dreams (to some) and to take the steps necessary to reach them. I now surround myself with big dreamers, bold movers and shakers that challenge me to move and to stop complaining. To plain out my destiny and to have a Blue print for my next  30 days, 90 days,  1 year, 5 years and 10 years. I also had to leave some people behind who are not currently ready for the next level or that were just dead weight. I love them, respect them and care for them, I just realized for my next level my circle must change and I have to change it.  I realize I must have: C.H.O.I.C.E.S Changing Habits Outlasting Impossibilities Creating Establishing Success, I encourage you today to exam your situation and make the choice as well.

 This article is compliments of Michelle A. Roberts, M.A., Author, Speaker, and Entrepreneur

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I said YES

Wow I am breathing hard, my excitement is overwhelming, I didn’t think this day would ever come .

I contemplated the day, the time and the year. I imagined in my mind how I would respond, I even dreamed of this day. Well it happened finally after days, months, years of praying, my day came and I said YES!!

You may ask wow what did you say yes to?  I said yes to me, yes to my dreams, my visions, my destiny and my purpose. I have been ignoring that inner call, that inner knowing and actually running away from it.  But when Destiny calls you have to answer. Destiny follows you daily, it whispers in your dreams, you hear it when you hear a song; people even tell you they see it.

I can’t ignore Purpose, Destiny or my calling anymore.  Myles Munroe says, “You must decide if you are going to rob the world or bless it with the rich, valuable, potent, untapped resources locked away within.” He also states “The greatest tragedy in life is not death, but a life without purpose”

Do you ever feel like Giving up? Everyone has felt this way at some point or another, why because life has a way of knocking the wind out of you. Everyone’s path is different.  What effects one person may not bother the other one in the same way; Strength in different situations comes in different doses.  But hold on to the fact that Destiny is calling you and you must be prepared to answer and be in position to collide with it.  You know the word proclaims He has predestined and preplanned the good life for us.

The Good life to me is having millions and time freedom and health and sound mind to enjoy it all , The Good life to you may be to have a Fabulous marriage or Awesome Entrepreneurial success.  It’s your vision and your dream.  Life is about choice...that's why God made us FREE moral agents. You can choose to be happy, choose to be healthy, and choose to be wealthy. Living the GOOD Life and having SUCCESS is a choice, not a chance.

So Destiny is calling our name. We just need to be in position and Answer! I said YES!

This article is compliments of Michelle A. Roberts, M.A., Author, Speaker, and Entrepreneur

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