What Makes You Feel Loved?

What things that others do for you make you feel loved? Do you like to have people give you special gifts, or to send you cards and messages that assure you that you are loved and appreciated. Maybe you are the type of person who appreciates a hug as a way of feeling loved, or really enjoy spending time with your spouse or best friend.

The way we give love to others is often indicative of the way we want to be loved ourselves. . Most couples enjoy expressing their love to each other. However, many of us have yet to learn a golden lesson. We all give and receive love every day. Often what makes us feel loved is different to the way others give and receive it. Learning what makes our spouse or children feel loved can be the key to making even great relationships even better.

We all enjoy being told we are loved, but for some people, the spoken word is not enough. Telling your spouse or child you love them but never following it up with the things that make them feel loved can create feelings of confusion and concern in even the best of relationships.

Keep a record of what you do for others to show them your love and note the reactions you receive to those actions. As you observe the significant people in your life and their responses to the different ways, you express love to them; you will soon see how they best “hear” you. 

If your wife sees help around the house as evidence of how much you love her, each time you help her you confirm to her you love her. In just one action, you will speak louder to her about your love than if you verbally assure her of your love every day. If your husband wants your physical touch, giving it to him will assure him you love him, more than any number of meals you may cook for him.

Learning to recognize the things that make us feel loved and then identifying what the significant people in our lives need to feel loved is a beautiful self-growth adventure that will revolutionize our relationship. It takes little time and effort to learn how to do this, yet as we learn and use this simple technique, our significant relationships can be transformed. 

This article is compliments of Michelle A. Roberts, M.A., Author, Speaker, and Entrepreneur

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C.H.O.I.C.E.S

Changing Habits Outlasting Impossibilities Creating Establishing Success

At the end of the day it’s all about choices, it’s easy to blame someone for the failed relationship, the time you were played for a fool, the bad financial choices etc. There are a list of choices we make every day that impact our now and our future. I am not just telling you this from what I heard but from several bad choices, failures and poor decision making.  I could write a list from A to Z or even 1 to 100. But I won’t bore you with the dreary details. What I will do is encourage you to move on and do better. It’s all about a made up mind and deciding I will change and I will do better. This could be a short process for some and a longer process for others depending on what poor choice you made. One process that I am involved in currently is cleaning up my credit, it went bad from poor choices I made and the impact of a bad marriage where we made joint decisions on credit things and once the marriage was dissolved there was a lingering effect. Therefore it will be a process that won’t happen overnight but little by little it is improving monthly and I see a Great, High credit score/fico score in my future. I am not only speaking it I am accommodating my faith with action of paying off things, writing the credit bureaus and getting things removed as well as,  I am getting help from experts in the field of credit repair/restoration.

I decided to stop rehearsing the bad relationships and move forward there are great men/women out there looking for other great men/women to move forward with and have a productive, loving, caring and respectful relationship. I decided to get myself together, spiritually, emotionally, financially and socially so that when that great man finds me   I am the great woman he has been waiting, praying and seeking for.  

I decided that my dreams are not big enough and I need to dream bigger, bolder and outlandish dreams (to some) and to take the steps necessary to reach them. I now surround myself with big dreamers, bold movers and shakers that challenge me to move and to stop complaining. To plain out my destiny and to have a Blue print for my next  30 days, 90 days,  1 year, 5 years and 10 years. I also had to leave some people behind who are not currently ready for the next level or that were just dead weight. I love them, respect them and care for them, I just realized for my next level my circle must change and I have to change it.  I realize I must have: C.H.O.I.C.E.S Changing Habits Outlasting Impossibilities Creating Establishing Success, I encourage you today to exam your situation and make the choice as well.

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I said YES

Wow I am breathing hard, my excitement is overwhelming, I didn’t think this day would ever come .

I contemplated the day, the time and the year. I imagined in my mind how I would respond, I even dreamed of this day. Well it happened finally after days, months, years of praying, my day came and I said YES!!

You may ask wow what did you say yes to?  I said yes to me, yes to my dreams, my visions, my destiny and my purpose. I have been ignoring that inner call, that inner knowing and actually running away from it.  But when Destiny calls you have to answer. Destiny follows you daily, it whispers in your dreams, you hear it when you hear a song; people even tell you they see it.

I can’t ignore Purpose, Destiny or my calling anymore.  Myles Munroe says, “You must decide if you are going to rob the world or bless it with the rich, valuable, potent, untapped resources locked away within.” He also states “The greatest tragedy in life is not death, but a life without purpose”

Do you ever feel like Giving up? Everyone has felt this way at some point or another, why because life has a way of knocking the wind out of you. Everyone’s path is different.  What effects one person may not bother the other one in the same way; Strength in different situations comes in different doses.  But hold on to the fact that Destiny is calling you and you must be prepared to answer and be in position to collide with it.  You know the word proclaims He has predestined and preplanned the good life for us.

The Good life to me is having millions and time freedom and health and sound mind to enjoy it all , The Good life to you may be to have a Fabulous marriage or Awesome Entrepreneurial success.  It’s your vision and your dream.  Life is about choice...that's why God made us FREE moral agents. You can choose to be happy, choose to be healthy, and choose to be wealthy. Living the GOOD Life and having SUCCESS is a choice, not a chance.

So Destiny is calling our name. We just need to be in position and Answer! I said YES!

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When They Tell you they love you ……..

The magic words most ladies want to hear, I love you, you know I love you, and Girl I love you. Well those words may land in your heart or in your stomach depending upon who is saying this and where the relationship has gone are is going.  I recall hearing I love you from my now ex-husband  as he would leave to go to the Crack house, I would hear I love you as I had to hide my keys in my shoe boxes because I knew he would not look there and if he got the keys I would not be able to get to work.

I heard I love you when I  went to the mail box and saw a letter from the courts saying he needed to pay child support for the first child he had while we was married. And yes I said the first child there were more  L .   I heard I love you as I would remind him if he loved us (our 3 kids and I) he would stop doing those things that made us sad, worried and disappointed.

So l had to start asking him are you really in love? , because love should not treat you like this the Bible says that love is patient and love is kind, therefore no you don’t love this Girl/Woman, Daughter, Wife, and Mother.

I knew with all that is in me, that I was in Love with me and because I love me, I had to leave the person who said they loved me for over 18 years of marriage and begin the healing and loving myself process. I had to love my 3 beautiful children enough to remove them from an unhealthy and dysfunctional situation. I remember asking myself, what are you showing/ teaching your daughters.  What are you teaching your son? I know that children look at what you do not just what you say. They were my why for improving our situation.

I am sharing this so you can love yourself enough to leave, start over or move on if you experience abuse, emotional or physical.  You may be reading this and thinking wow it is easier said than done. And I will agree it took me years to leave, I lacked confidence, self-esteem and the belief that I could make it. I had to reach out for help from, family, friends and clergy. I prayed, I cried and I used positive self-talk through affirmations to give me the strength, courage and stamina to make it happen. It was not easy but so necessary to heal and move forward.  I adopted a new Love code and I share it with you below.

L.O.V.E can mean Loving Over Various Errors or Living Over Victoriously Every day, I chose the latter and I am taking my Pearls back J

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